And with that, Thies Girls Camp 2012 is complete! After a wonderful week of talking about
nutrition and reproduction and the environment and gardening and possible
careers and business and marketing and everything in between, camp came to a
tearful close a few Fridays ago. And
yes, when I say tearful, that is what I mean.
The girls started thinking about departure a full 24 hours before it
actually happened, which added a flair of drama to Thursday night’s talent
show. One moment, everyone was dancing
to Rihanna and having the time of their lives!
In the next moment, Beyonce’s Halo had reduced all of the girls to
blubbering messes as they clutched their new friends in a swaying dance
circle. Lesson? You can put a girl in a week-long camp and
help her escape a week’s worth of housework… but she can never escape her
teenage hormones. In the best way!
Kathleen, Rita, and I pose with Aissatou, one of our counselors, and my some of my Thies girls on the last day of camp. |
No, but truly, camp was wonderful. All of my fellow PCVs did a fantastic job
with the sessions they’d prepared, forcing the girls into three-legged races,
teaching them about dental hygiene, showing them the beauty of the environment,
and awakening their quiet entrepreneurial spirits. All of our Senegalese counterparts did a
phenomenal job as well, inspiring the girls to try eggs instead of just
chocolate for breakfast, clarifying mystifying concepts like the power of the
moringa plant, and giving them honest, and thoughtful advice. And the girls? The girls were amazing: they jumped right
into the spirit of camp from day 1, participating in every session, asking
questions, taking notes, making fantastical artistic creations, never
complaining, and as it appeared to me, never sleeping. By the end of camp, they were all resolved to
start their own clubs in order to teach other people what they’d learned, keep
in touch, and maybe even take field trips to the other cities. Win!
Hard at work making moringa porridge for tomorrow's breakfast. |
Rita and Chelsea use our beautiful training center to show examples of plants and live fencing. |
The girls painted tires to use as recycled plant containers. My host sister Fatimata is in the neon! |
Out of all the sessions, I think the one that really came to
define camp, at least for me, was the presentation given by our gender and
development advisor, Awa Traore. I’ll
give you a little snapshot of it (with words, because no one had a camera
during this session):
Before Awa came, the girls watched a Peace Corps-produced
movie following five working women in Senegal, Awa included. Each of the women told her personal story,
paying special attention to the challenges she’d faced over the course of her
life. The women talked about balancing
work, family, and tradition, especially emphasizing the important and
irrefutable role that Senegalese women play in society. Then, at the end, they challenged the girls
to continue their educations and find a way to improve life in Senegal. I led a brief reflection after the movie,
mostly quizzing the girls to see if they’d paid attention. They had.
In fact, a few nights later my host sister called me into the living
room to point excitedly at the news, where one of the film’s women was being
interviewed on TV.
But what made an even bigger impact was the appearance of
Awa herself after the film, a living and breathing version of the figure they’d
just watched on-screen. Awa worked the
crowd like nothing I’d ever seen. In one
instant, she riled them up with an improvised skit about how boys flirt in
Senegal -- only to bring the girls to a
hush moments later by asking them soul-jarring questions. She found a way to make the room’s atmosphere
both completely safe, completely honest, and completely empowering.
The first point she talked about was ROMANCE, which obviously
hooked the girls from the get-go. In
addition to that reenactment of flirting, she also talked about the difference
between provocation and confidence.
Then, in one of my favorite moments of camp, she said, “Having a
boyfriend isn’t a problem!” (dramatic pause)
“But when DOES a boyfriend become a problem?”, which led to shouts of
“When he takes time from your studies!” “When he asks you for money!” and “When
he gets you pregnant!” From there, Awa
segued into a frank discussion about sexual violence, incest, and the rape, but
did it all with the effervescence of a sage.
The girls rose to the occasion, gravely absorbing each word with wide
eyes and nodding heads.
Next, Awa asked the girls about their future plans. Hands shot up. “Doctor!” “Lawyer!” “Diplomat!”
“Engineer!” -- all of them had a chance
to share with her exactly how they saw themselves. Then she asked all of the girls to close
their eyes and imagine a scene 10-15 years from now. Where were they? What were they doing? Who were they with? After a few moments, she asked a few girls to
share, and I loved their answers:
- “I was with my husband. We were both studying in a library in America to be lawyers. I was sending money that I earned there to help my family here.”
- “I was in Greece on a beautiful beach, living in a beautiful house with my family. I had my degree on the wall.”
- “I was in my clinic that I owned as a doctor, in Senegal. After work, I go home to my sincere, honest, faithful husband and our two children.”
After many girls had shared, Awa then asked, what would
happen if you got pregnant right now?
What would happen if you stopped going to school right now? Would these dreams still be possible? The girls thought about what she said, and
she then ended it with my favorite bit of advice:
“You all need to take responsibility, right now, for your
choices. Whatever those choices may be –
you must deal with the consequences. The
consequences may be good or they may be bad.
But either way, you have a responsibility to yourself and your dreams to
face them head on. And you must decide
how you will go forward.”
And to me, that kind of became my overarching theme for camp
– not only that bit of advice, but Awa’s whole presentation: I wanted the girls
to see how all of their choices do factor into their lives. I wanted them to understand that they do have
choices, even if that choice is only in how they react or voice their opinions. And I wanted them to remember how capable Awa
had made them feeI. If they took
anything from camp, I hope it was from this session. And from the way I heard them continue
talking about it, they did.
There were other amazing moments from camp, inevitably. I’ll never forget the high-pitched squealing
that accompanied each chastely romanctic scene from Bend It Like Beckham (such a good choice for Senegalese city
girls! The story about balancing the
desire to be a soccer star with the disapproval of your highly traditional
family resonated so well! Plus, they loved the Indian dance scenes, clothes, and
really identified with the overly dramatic matriarchal figures!). Throughout the week, I also adapted Valparaiso football cheers to various directions and moments. A big favorite was the "Ooga ooga" chant, which we used to do things like "go to the back room" and "get ready for lunch." I’ll also never forget how our talent show somehow
became a comedic roast of me. It’s not
just at American camps that the camp director becomes the comic relief and buffoon! I would have been offended if they hadn’t
also done such great skits about how to not die from malaria or get knocked
up. Also, they kept serving me tea.
So, in essence, thank all of you for supporting me and my
neighbors with this project! It turned
out far better than I expected, and I couldn’t have survived the process with
so much encouragement from back home! I’m
excited to keep in touch not only with my girls over the next few months, but
also a lot of the Senegalese counterparts who stopped by too. Just yesterday, I stopped by the school to
pay the registration fees for my scholarship winners. So begins another year! And so concludes this chapter of Thies Girls
Camp: edition 2012. All my love!
Campers, volunteers, and counselors, 2012 :) |
And, for the blog cliffhanger, prepare yourselves for future
entries about my recent brush with attempted robbery and a critical analysis of
dancing in Senegal. COMING SOON!